[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.feso.cz\/jak-komunikovat-s-detmi\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.feso.cz\/jak-komunikovat-s-detmi\/","headline":"Jak komunikovat s d\u011btmi?","name":"Jak komunikovat s d\u011btmi?","description":"Kdy\u017e vid\u00edme v obchod\u011b nebo na ulici zoufalo maminku, ji\u017e m\u00e1 jej\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b na praku, reagujeme r\u016fzn\u011b. N\u011bkdo poc\u00edt\u00ed k mamince nesympatie, proto\u017ee o\u010dividn\u011b nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1","datePublished":"2021-11-15","dateModified":"2023-06-05","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.feso.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.feso.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4b051168bd2ace843d503d3432ebc4a96ac13303845197b3f2a2634cb21029f6?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4b051168bd2ace843d503d3432ebc4a96ac13303845197b3f2a2634cb21029f6?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"feso.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.feso.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/kid-gf38c87736_640.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.feso.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/kid-gf38c87736_640.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.feso.cz\/jak-komunikovat-s-detmi\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":514,"articleBody":"Kdy\u017e vid\u00edme v obchod\u011b nebo na ulici zoufalo maminku, ji\u017e m\u00e1 jej\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b na praku, reagujeme r\u016fzn\u011b. N\u011bkdo poc\u00edt\u00ed k mamince nesympatie, proto\u017ee o\u010dividn\u011b nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1 svou roli. N\u011bkdo se \u0161kodolib\u011b pousm\u011bje, proto\u017ee si pro\u0161el nebo proch\u00e1z\u00ed t\u00edm stejn\u00fdm a uklid\u0148uje ho, \u017ee v tom nen\u00ed s\u00e1m. N\u011bkomu je \u017eeny l\u00edto, proto\u017ee si dok\u00e1\u017ee p\u0159edstavit, jak se uvnit\u0159 c\u00edt\u00ed, a v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1 sv\u00e9 maximum, jen nem\u00e1 pot\u0159ebn\u00e9 informace. Nebo podporu. Nebo v\u016fli. Za jedn\u00edm vztekaj\u00edc\u00edm se nebo neposlu\u0161n\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem se ukr\u00fdvaj\u00ed tis\u00edce p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f. Jak ud\u011blat u\u017e dnes p\u00e1r krok\u016f k tomu, aby z d\u011bt\u00ed byly na\u0161i par\u0165\u00e1ci?\u00a0\u00a0D\u011bti maj\u00ed z\u00e1zra\u010dnou schopnost n\u00e1m nastavit zrcadlo. A to bol\u00ed. Proto\u017ee \u010dasto jen tu\u0161\u00edme, \u017ee m\u00e1me sami v sob\u011b ukryt\u00e9 n\u011bjak\u00e9 nevy\u0159e\u0161en\u00e9 pot\u00ed\u017ee. N\u00edzk\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a sebehodnotu m\u016f\u017eeme navenek pom\u011brn\u011b snadno maskovat a na kolegy v zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed a \u010dasto i bl\u00edzk\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1tele to m\u016f\u017ee pom\u011brn\u011b dob\u0159e fungovat. P\u0159ed sv\u00fdmi d\u011btmi ale neutaj\u00edte nic. P\u0159etv\u00e1\u0159ku a fale\u0161nou suverenitu prokouknou a tnou do \u017eiv\u00e9ho. Za\u010d\u00edt r\u00e1znou v\u00fdchovou d\u00edt\u011bte tak nepom\u016f\u017ee, mus\u00edme za\u010d\u00edt u sebe. Nej\u00fa\u010dinn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm \u0159e\u0161en\u00edm je vyhledat pomoc psychologa \u010di kou\u010de. Psycholog n\u00e1m pom\u016f\u017ee se vyrovnat se svou minulost\u00ed, kou\u010d pom\u016f\u017ee nastavit kroky do budoucna. Pokud d\u00e1v\u00e1me d\u00edt\u011bti p\u0159\u00edkaz, ale uvnit\u0159 c\u00edt\u00edme, \u017ee ho nen\u00ed o co op\u0159\u00edt, d\u00edt\u011b nec\u00edt\u00ed pot\u0159ebu ho poslechnout.\u00a0\u00a0Dal\u0161\u00ed pot\u00ed\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdv\u00e1 p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit d\u00edt\u011b, aby splnilo, co po n\u011bm chceme. S\u00e1hn\u011bme si do sv\u011bdom\u00ed, jestli ob\u010das nepou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me zbyte\u010dn\u011b stroh\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edkazy. N\u00e1m by se tak\u00e9 nel\u00edbilo poslouchat jako robot, zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165, kdy\u017e nev\u00edm, pro\u010d bychom sami m\u011bli takov\u00fd \u00fakol plnit. Proto se sna\u017eme s d\u00edt\u011btem mluvit otev\u0159en\u011b a vysv\u011btlit mu, pro\u010d je pro n\u00e1s dan\u00fd \u00fakol d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd. Pro n\u00e1s, ne pro n\u011bj. D\u011bti n\u00e1s cht\u011bj\u00ed pot\u011b\u0161it. Dal\u0161\u00ed mo\u017enost\u00ed je d\u00e1t d\u00edt\u011bti d\u00edl zodpov\u011bdnosti. Nechce si \u010distit zuby? Nechme ho si v obchod\u011b s\u00e1m vybrat kart\u00e1\u010dek. Nechce j\u00edst? Dovolme mu pod\u00edlet se na p\u0159\u00edprav\u011b j\u00eddla. Podat, p\u0159il\u00e9vat, m\u00edchat\u2026 Pod bedliv\u00fdm dohledem zvl\u00e1dne i mixovat. Jedna z tolt\u00e9ck\u00fdch dohoda \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 \u201cneubli\u017euj slovem\u201d. V\u011b\u0159\u00edme, \u017ee kdy\u017e se za\u010dneme soust\u0159edit na respektuj\u00edc\u00ed jedn\u00e1n\u00ed s d\u00edt\u011btem, prom\u00edtne se to do cel\u00e9 na\u0161\u00ed komunikace se sv\u011btem a ta d\u00edky tomu bude mo\u017en\u00e1 o n\u011bco laskav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. \u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         4.1\/5 - (9 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jak komunikovat s d\u011btmi?","item":"https:\/\/www.feso.cz\/jak-komunikovat-s-detmi\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]